Leading with integrity & grace


The bespoke coach: Susie Flashman Jarvis

Executive coaching is a process that helps leaders improve their performance by setting goals, increasing self-awareness, and developing actionable plans for change.

An executive coach works with clients to identify areas of improvement and create a customized development plan.

Executive coaching is a process that helps leaders and managers improve their performance. The Bespoke Coach works with an individual to identify areas of improvement and develop action plans for making changes. The coaching relationship is built on trust, confidentiality, and mutual respect. The coach provides support and guidance, but the client is ultimately responsible for taking action and achieving results.

Our executive coaching can be an effective tool for improving job satisfaction, developing new skills, and increasing productivity. It can also help leaders build stronger relationships with their teams and navigate difficult transitions.

The coach also provides support and accountability throughout the process of change. Studies have shown that executive coaching can have a significant impact on leadership development, job satisfaction, and team performance. As a result, more and more organizations are turning to executive coaching as a way to develop their leaders and create a culture of excellence.

If you are interested in exploring executive coaching, contact us today to assess your needs and goals.

Executive Coaching

I support executives to live and work in more successful ways as I challenge their coping strategies, building relationships of trust and discretion.

Career Transformation

I will help you challenge those whispers that cause you to stumble in your career.

Speaking & Workshops

My inspirational story of healing and wholeness will enliven the audience as I speak with brutal honesty of failing and falling and rising again.

About me

As an Executive coach I work with senior leaders to support them to get out of the way of themselves and be the best they can.  My 20 years’ experience working as an Accredited counsellor enhances my executive coaching (Accredited with the EMCC. Eurpopean mentoring and coaching council) and ensures that my work is of a depth to benefit those who require a confidential, professional and discreet space to understand themselves.

How I am different

Do you ever get stressed? Do you ever feel overwhelmed? Do you have to manage in isolation at the top? Do you ever feel out of control?

I am known as a challenging coach who facilitates focus and change in all who work with me. I ensure that my clients are given the space to understand and thrive in life and the workplace. My bespoke therapeutic executive coaching model ensures that no stone is unturned to attain your goals.  Goals that are set are refined and achieved as I take no prisoners with my gift of questions.

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I can travel and meet you in your office whether in Sevenoaks, Tonbridge, Maidstone, London or across Kent and the UK

Or even in a mutually agreed place, if you wish you can meet me in my office where I am based in Tunbridge Wells.

There is no limit to location as I successfully do executive coaching sessions via Zoom.

Happy Clients

I worked with Susie during the most difficult time in my entire career, I work in the NHS as a senior manager in a children’s mental health service.

Covid created an unprecedented time for me and my staff. Susie was truly an oasis in the desert during that time, being a good listener and a skilful coach.

I found her to be empathetic, down-to-earth, knowledgeable, and totally authentic.

Being coached by Susie enabled me to access areas of myself that had been lying dormant.

I grew and this growth enabled me to support the team and manage them through the crisis.

If you would like to experience growth in your career and personal life then I would recommend Susie, 100%!

- Senior Leader

I worked with Susie when I was making the transition from clinician to Head of Service.

Susie’s approach really worked for me, she was patient and supportive but also challenged my long-held beliefs and assumptions.

She made me look inwardly as well as outwardly.

At times it was a little challenging but ultimately has shaped the way I want to manage.

I would thoroughly recommend Susie to anyone looking for executive coaching.

-Kerry Norman Head of Cottage Hospice

I started my coaching journey with Susie in November 2021 and although I felt like I would benefit from our sessions, I had no idea I would gain as much as I did!
Immediately I felt at ease with Susie, from our first chemistry call- we both agreed we knew we would get on well. Susie made it so easy to open up, be honest and authentic and actually encouraged those qualities, in an empowering and supportive way!

Looking back at the first few sessions we had, I feel like I was a completely different person to now, because Susie helped me come back to myself and rediscover the me that had become lost.

Meeting Susie and engaging in coaching, has honestly been one of the best things I have ever done- not only in terms of being able to build confidence within my job role at work, but also in my personal life. I remember Susie asking me one day “how did you do that?” when I was explaining how I had been overcoming my anxiety… my response was “I don’t know, it’s almost like magic”….. and THAT, I think, is the best way to summarise my coaching experience!

I have LOVED every part of my coaching experience, I am so glad I picked Susie and I will always be so grateful for the fantastic human she is!

- Mica McDonald- Equality, Diversity & Inclusion Administrator

Coaching Blog 

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Zoom intimacy

 We all have a primary need to belong, but the past 6 months have brought a degree of isolation not known before. We have all had to learn to communicate remotely and this has been very troublesome…

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When overwhelm beckons what do you do? Overwhelm is the state that occurs when we live out of balance. It is what happens when work requires solutions that appear beyond your control….


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Get In Touch

I offer coaching in Tunbridge Wells, Maidstone, Sevenoaks, London and online via Zoom. Please get in touch via the form below, email susie@thebespokecoach.com or my mobile +447968669648 if you would like a chemistry call to discover if I am a good fit.